Would you rather live in a utopia as a normal person or a dystopia where you are the supreme ruler?

I would rather live in a utopia as a normal person because I don’t want to be the only one who is not suffering while I watch other people suffer. Even if I could use my power to help other people, I cannot make sure that I can help everyone and give everyone what they need or are asking for. I also don’t like to have the responsibility of being a supreme ruler so I would rather be a normal person living in a utopia where everyone around me is as happy and content with their lives as me.